It’s these intense and unexpected situations that I enthusiastically jump right into. If someone were to tell you that taking a freezing cold shower would benefit you, what would your reaction be?
Because I’ve been through hell and back, I don’t flinch when couples come to me with the crisis of an affair, eruptive fighting, or the paralysis of isolation inside their relationship.
After the honeymoon period was over, my partner and I went through years of scrapping, so believe me when I say “I know what you’re going through.”
There’s a Japanese practice of using liquid gold to fill in the cracks of broken pottery. Kintsugi, as it’s called, teaches that broken objects are not something to hide but to display
Many therapists or coaches might be ashamed to admit their troubled years, but I’m proud to say that facing years of conflict in my relationship has given me a 360° perspective on
what it’s like to screw up, own up to it… and then stick with it until the relationship is strong and vibrant.
This is why I’m so excited to work with couples. I believe that your life and your relationship, can become even more refined thanks to its scars.